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Weighing in @ 10 Months

It’s official; Mishael’s has hit double digits. Craziness. And in only two months, he’ll complete his first trip around the sun!  Of course, we hope it will come back out to celebrate his special day; but for now, Mishael is enjoying the rain!

APRIL (10 months)
Weight:  9.27 kg = 20.44 lbs
Height: 75 cm = 29.5 in
Head circumference:  48 cm = 18.9 in

MARCH (9 months)
Weight: 8.89 kg = 19.5 lbs
Height: 74.5 cm = 29.3 in
Head circumference: 47 cm = 18.5 in

Thus continues Mishael’s growth as he enters into his first Brazilian rainy season because, ready or not, it’s here…as are more teeth that’s he’s added to his collection.  He’s now up to six.  And with

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Weighing in @ 9 Months

Finally, finally, finally.

Ever since Mishael has started on solids and experienced that slight lull in weight gain, his pediatrician has been dubious of my method.  But finally that has changed.  At Mishael’s nine month check-up, Dr. Airton actually complimented me on Mishael’s progress, especially M’s health.  In fact, he said, “I’ve never had a child (patient) so healthy!”  (Well, he actually said, “Eu nunca tive uma criança tão saudavel!”)  Yay!

Of course, the doctor’s comment is relative.  I can’t be too excited because I know that Brazilian parents tend to overreact to changes in their child’s health.  Any sort of deviation from the norm is justification for a hospital visit.  Really.  What’s truly amazing is that this mindset exists independent of social class and level of education.  So I well understand how the fact that Dr. Airton is not on my cell phone speed dial (as he is on the phone’s of all his other patients!) would impress him.

On the other hand, Carol has also commented on Mishael’s good health, especially here in Brazil where sanitation levels are a little (or a lot!) less than those in the States.  I can only attribute Mishael’s health to God’s grace.  And is he not the picture of health?

MARCH (9 months)
Weight: 8.89 kg = 19.5 lbs
Height: 74.5 cm = 29.3 in
Head circumference: 47 cm = 18.5 in

Thus continues Mishael’s growth as he enters into his first Brazilian rainy season because, ready or not, it’s here…as are more teeth that’s he’s added to his collection.  He’s now up to six.  And with all the drooling and chomping going on lately, there are others not too far behind.

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Weighing in @ 8 Months

You know that nagging feeling you get when there was something you wanted to do, but you can’t remember what it is?  For me, that something was posting Mishael’s eight month check-up stats (now that we’re scheduled for his 10 month check-up next week!)

FEBRUARY (8 months)
Weight: 8.4 kg =  lbs
Height: 72 cm = 28.35 in
Head circumference: 47 cm = 18.5 in

In comparison to his seven month stats, it would appear that Mishael didn’t grow.  Personally, I don’t see how that can be since I’m the one snapping his trousers on and off all day long.  My only explanation is that the doctor is a less than exact in his measuring, which I regularly serve witness to.

Mishael’s awareness of his surroundings also continues to grow, and he was fascinated with the “farm animals” during our last visit interior.

Just as Mishael was enchanted with the animals, our hostess Ivanette was enchanted with her little guest.

Ivanette wasn’t the only one who liked Mishael’s presence.  The mosquitoes also enjoyed him; in fact, they found Mishael quite tasty.

I had assumed this would be the case, so I had taken a mosquito net to cover Mishael’s Pack & Play (sooooooo thankful that Mom & Dad brought it to Brazil!!).  Unfortunately, although Mishael played fine in it during the day, he had no intention of sleeping in it, which he made quite clear!  As a result, he slept with me in the hammock.

(Sidenote: Anybody remember those fortunately/unfortunately stories!?  Unfortunately, this was just an “unfortunate” story!)

Unfortunately, I had forgotten to pack the bed sheets (occasionally sheets are used for the “cold,” but their main use is to keep off the mosquitoes).  All we had was a few baby blankets to keep us covered (it was only just enough), and they were hot and ineffective as either Mishael kicked them off or they slipped out of place.  Thus, I didn’t get a lot of sleep, but I did manage to keep Mishael covered – that is, until the wee, early hours of the morning when the heat got to be too much for both of us.  I figured the mosquitoes had already done (or tried to do) their worst, so I uncovered our heads.  The picture below shows the result.

I don’t know how well you’re able to see the pic on your computer screen, but Mishael has more than 50 bug bites on his head.  It was sight.  *sigh*  Poor guy.  What kind of mother does he have anyway?  I bet she’s a-day-late-a-dollar-short kind of girl.  You know, the kind that posts dated info on her blog…

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Weighing in @ 7 Months

JANUARY (7 months)
Weight: 8.135 kg = 17.9 lbs
Height: 72 cm = 28.35 in
Head circumference: 46 cm = 18.1 in

I know, I know.  I’m posting January’s stats in February, but oh well.  At least they’re here.  With that way the months keep flying by, it’s no wonder parents resort to counting by years instead of months!  I remember after celebrating the third day (or so) of cloth diapers, I thought to myself, “Why in the world am I counting the days!?  Who wants to reach the 452nd day of cloth diapers!!”

The babe is doing great, although his pediatrician was a little concerned at our last visit due to Mishael’s low weight gain; however, Mishael grew three centimeters, so he’s obviously not starving.  After talking with several other moms (including my own), I decided to chalk it up to MR’s lack of weight gain to (1) his active lifestyle — the kid does not sit still! — and (2) his transition to solid food.

Finger lickin' good!

Yes, we’re in the transitioning mode to solids, which includes a new array of sights and smells on both the dinner table as well as the changing table!

The transition has been an interesting cultural experience.  When we began feeding Mishael solids, his pediatrician wrote out an elaborate schedule, which included a variety of things that I disagreed with (i.e. starting out on a mixture of foods, including citrus fruits, etc.), so I smiled, nodded, and carefully tucked the schedule in MR’s folder for safe keeping.  Then I proceeded to begin asking mom-friends and researching on the internet how to transition to solids.

My training has included making baby food, which is not difficult to do but it is time consuming as the only dishwasher in our house walks around on two feet and answers to “mommy.”  Then again, most baby-oriented tasks are time-consuming, aren’t they?  So little-by-little we’re making progress, enjoying the adventure every step of the way!

After this meal with squash, Mishael lost the privilege of eating on the couch. Anyone wonder why!

Brazilian bananas must have a stronger taste as evidenced in Mishael's initial reaction; however, they're now a favorite, especially when mixed with apple.

Mishael playing with his food (sweet potatoes and spinach).

"What do you mean there's no more mango!?"

You may notice the varying background in Mishael’s meal pictures.  That’s because until a week ago, we didn’t have a high chair for him, which presented some inconveniences but was definitely d0-able.  (We “secured” him to a stack of plastic chairs.)  Now, however, we’ve upgraded to a Fisher Price booster seat (a special thanks to the Dennis Family Freight Co.) and Mama Bear has never been happier.  Who knew how much a tray and a seatbelt — oh, and a washable surface! — could simplify mealtime!  But it’s the little things that keep life exciting!

Nothing "beets" a new high chair for this happy boy!

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Weighing in @ 6 Months

DECEMBER (6 months)
Weight: 7.9 kg = 17.42 lbs
Height: 69 cm = 27.2 in
Head circumference: 45 cm = 17.7 in

With another month under his belt (literally), Mishael continues to grow – and in more ways than one!  Notice anything different about his smile?

Happily, Mishael’s two bottom teeth made their appearance just in time for G’ma Lundberg to get a good look at them during her Thanksgiving visit.  Although a runny nose and excessive drool played a prelude to the teeth’s simultaneous debute, Mishael continued to make mommyhood easy through his relaxed acceptance of his new teeth, a definite blessing!

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Weighing in @ 5 Months

Five months, já?  Time certainly flies when your having fun.  Or maybe it’s just all those diapers that make it such a blur.

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NOVEMBER (5 months)
Weight: 7.375 kg = 16.26 lbs
Height: 67 cm = 26.4 in
Head circumference: 44 cm = 17.3 in

At any rate, we visited Dr. Airton near the end of November for Mishael’s five-month check-up.  Mishael is doing great, still putting on weight (who knew that was a good thing!?) and gearing up to introduce solids next month, which will prove to be another interesting culture point in my care of Mishael.

Overall “baby food” means something very different to a Brazilian mom than an American one.  The tentative schedule I received from the doctor favors much more fruit than vegetables.  The majority of fruits are juices and the vegetables are all soups, both mixtures rather than individual fruits or vegetables.  Interestingly, the Brazilians don’t usually cook apple before feeding it to babies.  Instead they cut the apple in half horizontally (contrary to the typical horizontal American cut); then, cupping one half of it like a small bowl, they scrape out a small bite with a spoon.  What will they think when I make applesauce?  But that is not my only planned modification.

The majority of research that I have done so far encourages introducing one (steamed then puréed) vegetable/fruit at a time over a course of 3-5 days (even up to a week) to help detect allergies.  The plan is to start with carrots, followed by banana (uncooked, of course), and then perhaps spinach to get a “green” in (peas aren’t an option here).  How’s that for an exciting menu plan?  I’m sure that what Mishael’s pediatrician will think, as well!

With that said, if anybody has some “baby food” advice, tips or perhaps a more concrete schedule, etc., please do share.  As a rookie, I can use all the advice I can get, especially since I won’t be buying baby food.  Until recently, baby food bottles weren’t even available in the stores.  Now they are, but they are incredibly expensive (kind of like the Campbell’s soup I unexpectedly encountered the other day).  Besides, homemade food is healthier.  (Isn’t that true of most foods?)  So let the adventure begin!

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Mishael watching Sunday afternoon "football" with Daddy.

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Mishael helping Mommy with the laundry...principally by self-entertainment and the use of very little clothing.

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Mishael absorbed in a good book.

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Weighing in @ 4 Months

Curious minds want to know.  Of those, of those, it’s usually the mothers who pay attention to growth stats.  The long and the short of Mishael’s measurements is he’s definitely growing (PTL!). In attempt to get current, I’m going to play catch-up in this post and put in Mishael’s stats from birth to now (which makes them more impressive, anyway!).

BIRTH
Weight: 2.840 kg = 6.25 lbs
Height: 50 cm = 19.7 in
Head circumference: 34 cm

JULY (1 month)
Weight: 3.920 kg = 8.64 lbs
Height: 54 cm = 21.3 in
Head circumference: 38 cm = 15 in

AUGUST (2 months)
Weight:  4.970 kg = 10.96 lbs
Height:  58 cm = 22.8 in
Head circumference:  40 cm = 15.7 in

SEPTEMBER (3 months)
Weight:  5.675 kg = 12.51 lbs
Height:  62 cm = 24.4
Head circumference:  42 cm = 16.5 in

OCTOBER (4 months)
Weight:  6.725 kg = 14.83 lbs
Height:  65 cm = 25.6 in
Head circumference:  43 cm = 16.9 in

Check out the rolls on this Michelin Man!!

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"Thieves that [drive motorcycles] and steal…"

Personal safety is not something that we take for granted here in Brazil, and lately there has been a dramatic increase in the number of assaults among people we know personally.

The most prominent assault occurred two weeks ago when Bobby Dennis, one of my students at FA, was robbed after youth group on Saturday night. He had planned to spend the night at a friend’s house and the two were walking by themselves on a secluded road near the church. Two armed men pulled up on a motorcycle and took Bobby’s backpack, which had his laptop, his palm pilot, and his billfold; they took his friend Casio’s cell phone as well. It was definitely a successful robbery.

In some aspects, the two brought on their own misfortune. They shouldn’t have been walking on that road by themselves at that hour; but upon their return (via bus) from a youth outing, they decided to walk the rest of the way home instead of calling and waiting for someone to pick them up. At the same time, they could just as easily have been assaulted while waiting at the bus stop. Ironically, they were assaulted on the “safe part” of the road, after having passed through the more dangerous section.

It’s unfortunate, but robberies, especially with motorcycles, are becoming more and more common – and at all hours of the day. I’ve heard of four incidents in the last few months.

The first was the brother of recently returned Luis Coelho who serves under BMM with his wife Shari. (I believe they’ve presented at Faith.) Luis’s brother was struck in the face by a rock while driving his motorcycle by would-be assailants, another growing practice here. The robbers toss a rock in front of a motorcycle driver, often causing the driver to lose control and crash; then the robbers take his belongings and either kill the drive or leave him to die, if he has not already done so in the crash. In an amazing act of grace, God allowed Luis’s brother to maintain his balance in spite of the severity of the blow which hit him directly in the face (the assailants are well-practiced in tossing the rocks) and smashed every bone therein. Five minutes later, when he arrived at his destination, one eye was swollen shut with only a small slit through which to see on the other. I don’t know how many reconstructive surgeries he has had since then.

Another was Dona Edissa, the Portuguese teacher at FA. She visited the bank one afternoon with her sister who took out a large sum of money. As they were entering the front gate of Da. Edissa’s home, two men on a motorcycle pulled up, and one followed the two women into the front area where he pulled out a gun. The gunman didn’t ask Da. Edissa for her purse but only demanded that of her sister. When the sister refused, he shot the gun into the ground as a warning. Da. Edissa fainted and the sister gave the assailant her bag. Obviously, the two men had been tipped off, but the question remains by whom? It’s sad to think that it was most likely somebody at the bank.

The next was an attempted robbery that occurred a few weeks ago while Fred was waiting for a bus downtown. A motorcycle pulled up to a woman who was standing off from the group (perhaps waiting for a person to pick her up instead of the bus). He pulled out a gun and would have assaulted her, but her scream forced him to rapidly drive off.

Last month, Karen, a friend and pastor’s wife, was talking on her cell phone while standing on a median in the middle of the street. A motorcyclist drove by and snatched the phone out of her hand.

Many worry about our ministry in Edson Queiroz, a notoriously dangerous neighborhood, but the reality is that assaults and violence are a danger everywhere. We try to be responsible and minimize the risks we take; but at the same time, we recognize and trust in God’s sovereignty and control.

Today at lunch, I learned of two more recent assaults; one, unfortunately, was Da. Edissa who was robbed of her bus money by a teenage girl wielding a broken bottle as her weapon. The other was the father of one of my students at FA who, while sitting in a guarded recreational park, had some teenagers approach him with a gun. They initially robbed him of everything – including his shoes – and intended to kill him, but his calm manner and God-given wisdom to speak to them about God’s awareness of their actions pricked their conscience; and they eventually let him go, restoring all of his belongings but his money. Da. Edissa also spoke to her assailant about God’s awareness of the situation, but it did not have the same effect – yet more proof of God’s sovereignty.

Sometimes I wonder how I will respond when (not if) I am finally assaulted. As common as it is to be robbed, it is not an experience easily forgotten (so I am told). Pray for the faith of those robbed to continue to trust in God’s protection as well as His wisdom as to whether or not the stolen items are ever restored. Please pray also for wisdom in our daily interactions. In the last two robberies mentioned, the assailants first approached the victims with “innocent” intentions. Continue to pray for our daily personal safety, as well as those around us.

In spite of the dangers, I am thankful for how life in Brazil has taught me to devalue things. I know of no better description for seaside Fortaleza than in Matthew 6:19-21 where it says, “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” The only thing I would add to that list is mold, especially during rainy season! So much more reason to look forward to heaven!

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Fire in the Hole

We at the Rodrigues household enjoy an active lifestyle.  Heaven forbid that we should ever call our life “normal.”  No, that would be monotonous and dull; and we prefer excitement.  Thus, the Saturday before last when we finally had a quiet weekend planned (aside from the usual church commitments of youth group, worship team, etc.), God providentially provided an unplanned adventure.

Friday night is usually a late night for us.  I have membership class at church, followed by a discipleship Bible study with one of the teen girls. Fred has a Bible study early on with some teen boys and rounds out the evening with the weekly pastors’ meeting. The pastors’ meetings always go much later than planned, which means we arrive home late, as well.  By the time Fred arrives home on Friday night (he goes straight to the church from work), he is ready for bed; and since my pregnancy began, I’m quick to follow.

That Friday evening was no different, except that Pr. Tiago loaned us his truck for the night, so we had a more convenient way home (vs. the bus).  Fred took his shower while I did a few things around the apartment; then we lounged on the bed, discussing some situations with the teens, church, etc.  I was feeling especially exhausted that evening and very much looking forward to sleeping in the next morning; but I had specifically chosen to get ready for bed as a method of “tricking myself” into staying awake during our conversation.

When I woke up at 2:00 AM still fully clothed with the light on and Fred snoring softly beside me, I realized that my method hadn’t worked; so I got out of bed, changed clothes, brushed my teeth, washed my face, and turned off the fan.

Fred and I use the fan to quickly dry the tiled bathroom wall/floors after we shower in hopes of discouraging additions to the immense population of mosquitoes we are already house in our small apartment. It’s a old, rusty fan (What isn’t rusty here in Fortaleza?), but it has served us well, especially during the nighttime hours when its perpetual motion helps deter (since it does not entirely keep) the remaining mosquitoes from consuming us during our rest; however, since my swollen feet have become an issue (see previous blog entry), we have been sleeping in the air conditioning to provide partial relief during the night.

On Friday night, I nudged the fan closer to the toilet when I turned it off so I wouldn’t trip over it during my nightly trip to the restroom.  As I did so, the face “fell off” its screw. This was not usual, but I was too tired to fix it then and decided to leave it for the following morning.

Since I was two hours behind my sleeping schedule, I woke up at 7:00 AM instead of 5:00 for my early morning bathroom trip.  The moment I opened the door, I knew something was burning.  I immediately looked around the kitchen and living room (oven, appliances, lamps, etc.) but found nothing except a layer of fine black soot covering EVERYTHING.

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When I returned to the kitchen, I saw a puddle of plastic on the bathroom floor.  The plastic was already hard and as flat as a pancake.  The metal face was laying on its front, the plastic fan blades melted into its frame.  The blackened body of the motor (whose color matched the side of the toilet) was on the floor. All of the wires and internal parts had melted into the plastic pancake.

The smoke from the fire left an oily black film, both inside and outside of the cupboards.  Some of the dishes looked clean, but when you wiped your finger across them, it turned up black.

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We had received a borrowed, full-sized but filthy refrigerator on Wednesday (to replace our two dorm-sized refrigerators), after which I spent the next two days cleaning it with some good ol’ fashioned elbow grease. I had just finished reinstalling all the shelves and our food on Friday afternoon. It now needed to be cleaned again – the outside, anyway.

As for my beloved books, I had spent Thursday afternoon wiping them and the bookshelves off in my battle against mold (It’s definitely rainy season!). Now the books and the shelves had to be cleaned again.  Everything had to be wiped down, from the ceiling to the floor!

Fred and I had planned to go look at an apartment Saturday morning, so we left on that errand; but from our 11:00 AM return until late that night, it was the F&F Clean Team.  We got the bathroom and the outside of the kitchen cupboard doors done, but there was still left plenty more left! My feet, of course, reflected the day’s work, but I’m learning to deal with it – I just don’t look down.

Our full Sunday schedule didn’t allow us to clean much beyond that over the weekend. Then, between Fred’s work schedule and my busy week (last week of the quarter), the clean-up progress has been slow; however, slowly but surely we’re gaining – at least, that’s what I keep telling myself.

We discovered later that there was a “brown-out” that night (when the electricity level suddenly drops very low, then comes back in a sudden burst). Depending on their severity, brown-outs can do extensive damage to appliances, etc. Our next door dorm neighbors had an air conditioner meltdown that night.  Thankfully, it didn’t affect our borrowed refrigerator.

In spite of the challenges, I am thankful for many things. First and foremost, God’s protection.  In our bedroom, the 6-inch door ventilation panel is covered with glass for air conditioning efficiency; thus, we heard nor smelled anything of the fire. You can see in the first picture that a bathroom towel lay on the floor just inches from the fan.  If it had caught fire, the curtain would have, next the plastic drawers, etc.  Had the bathroom fire gone into the kitchen, it would have cut off our only escape route since our robber-proof windows also prevent any fire escape, especially with my rounded belly.  Needless to say, the outcome of the fire could have been much more severe.

There have been times in that past six months that I have been tempted to complain about our cramped quarters; but as I cleaned, I found new reason to praise God for a very small apartment: significantly much less to clean! Another blessing is the majority of our household furnishings are not yet in our apartment (there’s no room!), so they were spared any damage.  Also, our computers and other tech stuff were either covered or in the closed bedroom.

We are thankful for many, many things, including you who pray for us on a regular basis. I don’t suppose that many, if any, of you ever specifically prayed for our safety during a fire; but God knew just what we needed in answer to your prayer for protection. Thank you for your faithfulness.

This situation also provided lots of learning lessons. It was a poignant reminder of what is important in life, and it’s not unstained Tupperware lids or immaculate books or even clean walls. As Dad always told me, there are only two things in life that matter: people and God’s Word; because those are the only things that will last for eternity.

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I have been amazed at the pervasive presence of soot in the apartment. There is not an item that was left unblemished, even if not perceptible at first glance. While cleaning one day, I considered the parallel between the soot and the pervasive effects of sin in our lives. Sometimes the effects of sin are black and obvious, like the heavy film that covered the toilet, and usually such apparent effects appear in the areas of our life most closely related to the sin; however, although we may not see the more subtle effects, that same sin inevitably has a dulling effect on all aspects of our Christian walk, like the fine dust coving my dishes, because if nothing else, it impedes our relationship with God,

“Confession and communion.” How often I remember Pastor Sauser reiterating that while I was growing up. Who of us doesn’t sin on a daily basis? There are no super-saints in the Rodrigues house, that’s for sure. And so we practice the walk of faith, constant confession that we may have continual communion with God.

And thus our exciting adventures continue as God provides daily protection and grace.

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The Married Month

I realize it has actually been longer than a month, but it sounds nicer that way.  Not only does it minimize my absence, but it also takes advantage of alliteration (yes, the English teacher is back in her element).

So, to put it mildly, I’ve been a little busy; and each week has brought it’s own adventure.

WEEK ONE was paper work for my marriage license.  That was an adventure.  Lots of bells and whistles to be blown or rung – and participation was not optional.

WEEK TWO was wedding plans.  (You can read all about it in my upcoming book How to Plan a Brazilian Wedding in One Week.)  We pulled it off - I’m indebted to those who worked to help make it happen! – but it’s not an experience I would recommend.  One should give herself at least two weeks.

WEEK THREE was the honeymoon.  Fred and I spent it at a small beach hotel in Iguape, a town about a ½ hr. away from Fortaleza.  Enough said.

WEEK FOUR was a return to reality.  Fred went back to work Monday morning, while I cleaned the apartment and unpacked boxes. Initially, when I left the U.S., I felt like I was leaving a lot behind, but I can see now that it was a good thing.  We have very little room in our tiny temporary apartment, and I ended up repacking several boxes.

Aside from the essentials, any extra room is filled with books. Both Fred and I love books, and we use them regularly in our work and ministry (teaching, counseling, pastoring, etc.), so we have LOTS of them!  It’s too bad I couldn’t bring my bookshelves with me – but then again, if I had, where would Mom store all the books that I left behind!

We’re currently staying at the FA Guest House while we wait for our apartment in Edson Queiroz to open up. Like most things in Brazil, the projected date keeps being extended.  “Two or three weeks” can mean “two or three weeks after next month.”

WEEK FIVE was English.  I took the plunge and took over the high school English classes.  A week or two later, I assumed the teaching responsibilities for U.S. History.  After that, the weeks begin to blur…

My “kids” are excited to have me back, but my name change has presented a challenge to them.  They don’t like “Mrs. R” (too many syllables or something) and complain that it doesn’t flow like “Miss L.”  Thus, without a designated name, they often default to “Miss L” in the middle of class.  Worse yet, I answer without noticing the wrong name!

Married life is wonderfully normal.  It’s also incredibly busy.  I have to be super-conscious of and disciplined with my time, especially since meals require such extended preparation here.  When I was single, I ate a lot of salads and veggies; and I had no qualms snacking my way through a meal  But now!  Rice, beans and meat are the basic make-up and seem simple enough, but the beans have to be soaked overnight and the meat has to be treated, and to have them all ready at the same time, along with the salad and/or veggie…ai, just typing it out makes me tired.  Oh, and fresh fruit juice is also a staple.  I tried cheating one day by making juice out of frozen pulp, but my Brazilian husband caught it right away.  Not that he complained; he just noticed.  Would you?

I also now make a regular trips to the paderia (bread store) whereas before, as an avoid-white-dedicated-wheat-bread girl, it was only once in a while.  I also make a lot more visits to the mercado (grocery store).  And then the wash has doubled as has my ironing.  Actually, the truth be told, I never ironed when I lived by myself because I specifically bought clothes that would not need ironing! I probably should have taken that into consideration before marrying a man who wears a dress shirt every day to work.

But even in the busyness, I enjoy Fred’s constant companionship.  He is a very attentive and carring husband; and we have fun doing stuff together.  I don’t think I had any expectations of married life, and I was probably a bit more prepared for what was to come due to my counseling experiences (vs. a starry-eyed-20-year-old); so all that has helped in the transition.

I read a quote the other day that summed married life up well.  Basically it said if you want TIME to serve Christ, don’t get married; however, if you want TO BE LIKE CHRIST, get married.  So true.  Of my single life, I miss my time the most; and never did I imagine how petty I could yet be at this point in my spiritual walk.  Who knew I could be so selfish?!  (That’s a rhetorical question.)

I had to laugh when I heard a friend of mine, who was also recently married, asked his mom, “Did I suddenly become less sanctified when I said, ‘I do’?”  It certainly feels like it some days!  Thankfully, God (and Fred!) are gracious and loving and kind.

So there it is; and speaking of time, mine’s up for today.

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